Wednesday, May 6, 2009

How Do We Keep Our Relationships Together?

Well I find myself wondering how is it I am with the SAME person after two year? Well this is going to be a very short blog here but I find myself growing together with him. We are two separate people but at the same time we are one. We grow as one but as two individuals. I've learned that I freak out too much. He's learned he checks out too much sometimes. And bring it all together and we learn from each other and are becoming stronger more independent people day by day. I guess the point I'm making is remember to take a step back and look at your relationship from an outside perspective. Spend time around other friends that are in relationships and learn from their mistakes. And look at what is failing in their relationships and see how you would fix in in THEIR relationship and then translate it into something useful for your situation. Your friends relationships are perfect? BULL SHIT! There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. You just get snowed over too easily. Look deep. ask questions. I suggest looking at your friends relationships for a reason. They're going to tell you things that your partner wouldn't tell you. That's how you learn.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Quick Update!

Hi guys! I apologize It has been over a month since my last update. I was out of town, had the flu, was dealing with a few business problems and now I think life is starting to return to normal and I will be updating this again more frequently like I had originally intended. Thank you all for your support and I am so sorry for getting brought down for a while.